It’s been a long time since I wrote anything here, but something struck me today and I decided I have enough time to put my ramblings down once again.

What I noticed is that a great many men and women are out to redefine traditional views on actions and characteristics as masculine or feminine. Nowadays it’s “manly” to cry and “girly” to drink yourself into oblivion.

But it’s not. Somewhere deep down inside all of us there’s this weird feeling that maybe men shouldn’t be sobbing into their mothers chunni, but instead be bold about their problems. Maybe it’s that toxic masculinity I keep hearing about or maybe it’s the fact that men are not treated with kiddie gloves by society.

Cultural Marxists often blame society as the evil puppet master in the clouds, looking down upon creation and tampering with it’s true egalitarian nature but really it’s not society’s fault that men are expected to be men (a phrase which I don’t need to explain, you already know what it means).

It’s biology which is at fault. Humans evolved in conditions where men for some reason were forced to be hunters. They were forced to have strength, cunning, agility and confidence. Without it they couldn’t attract women. Women in turn were forced to be caring, nurturing and attractive in a variety of “soft” ways. Couples like this had a higher likelihood of procreating.

Not much has changed, women still want men who are strong and cunning and the like, and even like sexist men more than they do feminist men. Sexist men also most likely tend to have bigger muscles (right wing men certainly do).

So when women complain that society thinks drinking or smoking is unfeminine it’s not because society has done any such thing. Women are complaining that they do not have or want to posses the characteristics that biology has laid out as feminine. They are complaining that they are insecure about their actions and behaviours and know that inherently there is something unattractive about it to men. The only way they can continue their behaviour is by redefining the paradigm to convince men that what they’re doing is expected behaviour – expected femininity.

Men who think women who are brash & loud, who drink too much, smoke too much are unattractive are not doing so not because society tells them these things are unfeminine, but because biology does. Women who lie to themselves that this behaviour is actually normal, acceptable and in fact superior to traditional femininity have only the warmth of a thousand cats and the shoulder of some rapist feminist men to rely on.

The future is traditionally patriarchal.